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THE ELDEST DAUGHTER, her traumas, her wounds and HER REDEEMER.

The daughter who matured beyond her age, the one who carried responsibilities that weren’t hers. She breaks cycles and patterns as she heals

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By Ebén-ézer Ndamukunda
The Eldest daughters (i.e) 1st born daughters, daughters born after boys, middle daughters who acted like the eldest, the only daughters. The mothers and fathers of eldest daughters
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Why this book should exist

To make all eldest daughters feel seen, get encouraged, and inspired to heal. A reminder that they are not alone, that the calling on their lives is noble , that their mantle is heavy, and that to carry it well they need to let their creator show them the way. A voice to let them know that healing from their childhood traumas and wounds clears the way for their original version of themselves before any conditioning to emerge. The version that only their creator knows, and that it is that version that leads the way to fulfill their greats destinies.

What readers want from this book

It's beautiful

GGihozo · Kigali

courage

ABAlice Buhinja · Kigali

It is very encouraging

DDavid · Kigali

To expore the journey of daughters and hopefully make connections with my own story. Would also love to have the book for my own first daughter.

BBonita · Kigali

To read and be encouraged by the story.

AAnitha · Kigali

I am the first daughter myself and more to this, I am the first granddaughter. I feel someone felt me and I am curious to discover how seen I can feel with the author. I hope to discover something to help navigate this journey.

VVanessa · Kigali

The title itself is enough to make one want to read it. Someone was bold enough to speak for us! Yes, there is pain in being the first born daughter! I would like to hear from her perspective why we see/do things as we do them, learn how to break the cycle. The book brings hope. Thank you Ebenezer!

GGrace

I want people to know what first borns face in life.

fkfina kayisanabo · Paris

Being the eldest daughter in my family, i would want to see this role through someone else's lens. Especially the part of caring for other people at the expense of your self or pouring from an empty cup kind of thing. I can't wait to read this book.

LLeah · Kigali

To tap into the wisdom shared in the book, to know what an eldest daughter has to say to a fellow eldest daughter (me)

JJESSICA · Kigali

The promise

At the end of this book, the reader will feel seen as an eldest daughter, encouraged, and inspired to heal from what wasn’t hers to carry . The reader will feel invited in the world of eldest daughters and get how to parent them without repeating the negative cycles .

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