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Before I Become Me

A girl searched for love where she first lost it—and found hope while surviving everything before she became.

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By Niyigena Fairbless
Before I Become is for anyone who has ever felt unseen, questioned their worth, carried childhood wounds into adulthood, or searched for the courage to become themselves. Although the story is set in Rwanda and reflects an African upbringing, its emotions are universal."
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Why this book should exist

Why this book has to exist:

Before I Become Me gives a voice to children who grow up carrying silent pain, rejection, and insecurity. It answers the question of how someone finds hope, identity, and self-worth after trauma, while highlighting family struggles, healing, friendship, and the courage to become who they were meant to be.

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The promise

Readers will walk away realizing that the deepest wounds are often the ones no one can see, and that behind every quiet smile may be a child fighting battles the world never noticed. They will learn that no child is "just quiet"—every child has a story, and love, kindness, and understanding have the power to change the course of a life. Above all, they will discover that before we become who the world sees, we are first shaped by what we survive, what we lose, and the people who choose to love us anyway. My hope is that when readers close this book, they will carry more compassion, judge others less quickly, and remember that healing is not about forgetting the past, but about finding the courage to become more than it.

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